in my almost 20 years of working in corporations, this probably was said about me too. and yes, it’s true that i was pretty critical and chose to speak up, but never to sit and idly watch to see things burn down while saying “i told you so”. i always took ownership of the problem and tried to solve it, even if it was outside my responsibilities.
watching Adam Grant’s TED talk about givers and takers was pivotal to me. adam grant, who is an organisational psychologist and professor at wharton, states that there are four types of people in any organisation and uses two axes: agreeable (polite, pleasing others) versus disagreeable (critical, sceptical, challenging), and giver (‘what can i do for you?’) versus taker (‘what can you do for me?’).
rebels are intrinsically motivated to make things better. they care so much about their work, that they are willing to risk conflict. their urge to speak up is so much stronger than their will to fit in. and so, they tend to disagree often, but only because they want to improve the situation.
so, please don’t mistake critiquing for complaining.
when people complain, they are reactive and expect someone else to fix the situation. when they critique, they are highly engaged and focused on finding solutions.
thus, understanding the real motives of the people in your organisation will help you discover who your most valuable employees really are.
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